I Sent Nearly $90,000 Home While Serving Overseas—Then I Returned Early and Found My Wife Sleeping in a Tool Shed With Her Head Shaved

Sometimes $1,800.

Sometimes $2,500.

Whenever hazardous-duty bonuses or extra allowances arrived, I sent those too.

By the time my deployment was almost finished, I had transferred close to $90,000.

Naomi never asked for that much.