I used to think the biggest relationship mistakes were dramatic: cheating, lies, secret lives.
Turns out, sometimes the most damaging thing starts with a conversation that sounds like harmless curiosity.
My husband and I were still building our foundation. We weren’t even living together yet. We were in that phase where you want to be the “cool” partner — the one who’s open-minded, confident, unstoppable.
So when the topic of a threesome came up, I didn’t shut it down.
